He thinks that you are not smart enough to handle some difficult problems and he doesnât find you reliable. My family and friends, thought nothing but good things about my husband. My job requires concentration and I canât slack off while doing it, but I work half as many hours as he does. I have never been able to figure his angry,demeaning personality out until a marriage counselor said the word narcissist. For example, âMy husband just told me that his feelings for me have changed and he does care about me like he use to? None of them pick up after their selves. Although being confident in your beliefs is usually a positive attribute, everyone knows a person who finds it virtually impossible to admit that they've done or said something wrong. I think it is big cop-out and something else is going onâ I have been with him for 7 years and he keeps saying they will grow up. My husband is never wrong and nothing is ever his fault. They come visit and totally trash the house. Of course, we must keep in mind that deciding you're better off alone when you've been married for 35 years is very different than deciding you're better off ⦠Dear Amy: My husband of 55 years Googled two female television personalities. It has been so difficult living with him and has torn me down emotionally. He has raised his kids to be the same way. However, if your partner actually does always think you're wrong (as in, they always blame you/never give in in an argument), you may be dealing with a narcissist, which makes it the situation more difficult. My husband(25m) thinks heâs doing nothing wrong. His insecurity essentially turns him into a control freak. My husband is very controlling and emotionally abusive. I have been married to my husband for 22 years. Attempting to have a fair conversation with someone who thinks he's never wrong can be a source of frustration. His job is pretty intense, and he works a full day every day. 9. 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